I am in a toxic workplace, I have been offered to transfer to a different site, same position.

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April 1,2022 at 2:59AM UTC

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I am in a toxic workplace, I have been offered to transfer to a different site, same position.

The cons: much longer commute, I can walk to work. It's the same role and pay. I just got our site running smoothly.

The Pros: away from toxic work environment.

Deep down, it's not the change I truly seek. I haven't found my new opportunity elsewhere yet.

Part of my dilemma is, I like my prospective new manager, I would feel bad moving, and then moving on.

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AnonymousApril 1,2022 at 3:13AM UTC
Sounds like you want to stay put. If the toxic environment doesn't take too much of a toll stay.
AnonymousApril 1,2022 at 1:07PM UTC
You don't have to feel guilty about moving and then moving on. While it may be tough on your new manager, it's all part of the working world! Do what's best for you.
AnonymousApril 4,2022 at 8:57PM UTC
Thank you for your comments, the pay increase wasn't significant at all, so I decided to stay and put my energy in looking for something else.
Sabrina CortesApril 7,2022 at 3:22AM UTC
As you start your job search, it's important to tailor your resume to each job that you apply for. This increases your chances of passing the applicant tracking systems (ATS) scanning process and gets your resume into the hands of a human Recruiter or Hiring Manager.
I hope this helps and wish you all the best!
AnonymousApril 9,2022 at 1:02PM UTC
Thank you,
I decided to stay and regretted my decision. (My boss got worse after he knew I declined the transfer. I will see it as incentive to look for a better position.
Sabrina CortesApril 10,2022 at 1:23AM UTC
Yep, and you'll know it when you find it.
As you go through the job search process, make lists of the pros and cons of the different companies that interview you. Weight out company culture, pay, benefits, etc. This way you can make an informed decision.
Sending you good vibes!