Would you go back to your old company for the salary only?

Would you go back to your old company for the salary only?

Hello everyone, I would appreciate your insights please. Apologies in advance for the long post! ?

I left my previous job two years ago, after having worked with them for nine years, because I was feeling unchallenged, unappreciated, bored, and knew that there were no training opportunities or any way forward for that matter (it was admin work at a foreign embassy). After I quit, our initial plan was to move abroad because I knew that it’d be difficult for me to find a job in my own country (ageism is rampant, and I’m in my 40s) and my husband’s business wasn’t really going well at the time. I moved to the UK on my own at first, and my husband was supposed to follow me after a few months. I was lucky to land a good role at a prestigious university (with prospects for future advancement), so I felt that I’d hit the jackpot. Then Covid happened. There was no way I could stay abroad on my own so, having taken my line manager’s permission, I moved back home to work remotely. We intended to return to the UK once this was all behind us, however, my husband’s business really took off during that time.

Anyway, to cut a long story short, my former manager approached me to go back to the embassy as an executive assistant this time. I’m currently working my notice period, so I’ll be free in a couple of weeks. I know the money will be good (the minimum wage in my country is very low, so if you’re paid double or triple this amount, then you’re really lucky), however, I don’t know if I want to go back to that culture, as I don’t feel it’s the right fit for me. I’m scared, though, that I may not find another job soon (there have been no responses to my applications so far). I’m torn about what to do. I know that I want to do something of my own eventually, but I’m certainly not there yet. Any advice?

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  1. Anonymous

    It would depend on MANY factors. No short answer.

  2. Anonymous

    That’s true. I appreciate your input anyway.

  3. Evelyn Livant

    I would ask him if there were the option to get your benefits back in addition to the salary. Since they want you, you are in a better bargaining situation. Otherwise, you are essentially having to gamble. Is the job market bad enough that being in a safe position (even less than ideal) with good pay worth it? My husband took a lower paying job not utilizing his full skill set because it looked like he couldn't find a job for what he did. He started another job search and wound up moving into something better later

  4. Anonymous

    Hi Evelyn, we do get our benefits with our salary in my home country, so that won’t be a problem. The job market isn’t ideal at the moment, so I may take the job until I figure out what to do next. Thanks for your input, I really appreciate it.

  5. Carola Fuertes

    It seems you're going to back in that country anyway because of your husband's business, so why not take that job anyway (in case you need the income) while you look for something you feel fits you better?

  6. Anonymous

    Thanks, Carola. I was actually considering doing this. I don’t really need the income right now, as I have savings, but the added benefits would be welcome at the moment.

  7. Anonymous

    I’ll meet with them tomorrow. I do have savings, and my husband is doing well at the moment, so I don’t need an income right this minute. However, I’m one of those people who get stressed when they don’t have a steady income. I’m trying to change my mentality, and I hope I’ll be able to do it at some point. The benefits would still be welcome though.

  8. Anonymous

    I am similar to you. In your shoes, unless your employer was a really horrible experience, I would take the job and also continue looking in case it doesn’t work out.

  9. Marquisha Thomas

    I agree with the poster that said it never hurts to take the job, because you can always be looking for something that’s a better fit for you!

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