Not, to sound rude or combative, but I, like Kamala, am multi-racial (maybe quad- or something like that). Problem is, most people are lazy in how they describe me. They say I'm Mexican. Meh, sort of, if that makes it easy for them to remember, I don't care much. Even more curious, is that once they get to know me, they absolutely forget that I am anything but American—they even go so far as to argue that I'm caucasian American LOL. Dude, I'm brown! But that's ok too, it just makes me chuckle, because deep down I think what they are trying to express, albeit clumsily, is that we have more in common than race which divides us. Speaking from experience, it is difficult to have one foot in each of those racial worlds—I remember as a child my Mexican family highlighted the fact that I wasn't 100% one or the other, and that I shouldn't be allowed the title of either. My American family followed up by saying things that made me feel that they 'overlooked' my color. Evenso, it was my grandmother's words that I took most to heart when she'd say,"Well, you are just something altogether new." I hope that one day we can all agree to describe ourselves and others, not by our color or confirmed ancestry, but by the diverse cultures we celebrate as Americans rather than our race. If I had a chance, I would say,"Kamala, you're something altogether new. I can't wait to see what you do!"
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