Games, red flags or....?

Games, red flags or....?

I interviewed for a position almost 2 weeks ago. I was offered the job but would firm things up after a background check. No word from my future employer whatsoever after 10 days. I emailed him today to inquire, and he said to look out for a link from HR. I never got the link. What?! I feel like I'm chasing this company down. I've never had a problem with background checks in the past, much less poor communication from my future "supervisor." It's not a dream job and I'm interested, but not so much as to hound them. Any input? I really don't want to reach out to them again.

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  1. Anonymous

    If I were in your place, I would reach out to him one last time, and if I was not satisfied with his actions or explanations, move on. If they are this poorly organized and supposedly want you on board, things will be unlikely to get better. In that case, consider that you have dodged a bullet.

  2. Alesha

    I agree with this. I've done background checks and they don't take very long - 48-72 hours max. You don't want to work for a place that communicates to a prospective employee like this. Regardless of what's going on, they should never ghost a candidate.

  3. Anonymous

    Hi there. OP here. I reached out ONE LAST TIME the other day via email. I tried to call but no one picked up (hmm). I can't figure out if I'm being ghosted (after being given an offer?) or there's a lack of communication btw departments or what. I don't know if they use a third party or not (my guess is not), but I'm not chasing them down. It's been 3 weeks now. Sigh. Thanks for all of the comments - truly appreciate them!

  4. Drea Rahming

    So sorry but it seems that companies have gotten into this if we avoid it it will just go away business practices Good luck on your job search

  5. Anonymous

    I agree and you gave great advice. Something in my gut feel like this is best case scenario red flag, otherwise, this is a clear indicator of how the OP will be treated once on board (think advocating for a salary increase, promotion, time off, etc.).

  6. Anonymous

    Nowadays, background checks can take up to 3-4 weeks or more.

  7. Lomaxruiter@yahoo.com

    We’ve had several issues with our background screen provider in the past year.

  8. Anonymous

    Depending on the background check level, some places can take up to six weeks or more for the background check, especially if they are doing the full FBI check. Do you have a contact in HR? You might try calling them to find out how long the checks are taking where you are. This is something that the line managers typically have no knowledge of, so reaching back out to your future manager would probably not help much.

  9. Anonymous

    Call the recruiter (or HR) that you worked with. I use a third party for background screens, and sometimes those email will end up in junk/spam folders. That said, I typically reach out to individuals in advance of the link being sent so they know what to look out for and when.

  10. LaDonna Collins

    Did you check your spam? Often these emails go to spam. If it’s not in your spam, I would send an email requesting them to resend the background information. I’ve had several people ask me to resend pre-employment tasks. I appreciate their enthusiasm about the position and am glad to do so.

  11. Anonymous

    Have patience. 10 Days is nothing depending on the level of clearance needed. Some background investigations can take months! I’m surprised you reached out so soon. I would stop reaching out if I were you. It’s not a good look.

  12. Anonymous

    A reasonable amount of time for a background check depends on the depth of investigation being performed. Ideally, they would've told you how long their checks usually take. In places I've worked, a basic check can be completed in 24 hours. Longer ones can take a couple days. It should only be taking weeks or longer if the position involves a high level of clearance. Especially since he told you to look out for a link from HR, I suggest checking back in to advise it wasn't received once you hit the 48 hour mark. If things still seem stuck at that point, you can certainly remove yourself from candidacy. That comes down to how you feel about your process, and if you'd be comfortable working at a place that seems to be quite a bit disorganized, at the least.

  13. Anonymous

    Well, if you want the job you have to communicate with them. Perhaps email the background check company to get a copy of your background check. I always advise this no matter what. Then contact your new manager and let him know that you have some questions about start date, offer letter, benefits etc. If you get nowhere with him ask for him to have HR call you because you need to decline other potential employers to firm up your acceptance of their job and your exit from your current situation.

  14. Lisa McCartney

    Did you check your spam folder? Sometimes the algorithms are set funky and you have to double check. Also check to make sure someone didn't transpose letters in your email.

  15. Cynthia Fortenberry

    I am over 65 and inquired about a position within a larger well organized health based corporation. My daughter is a nurse and put me on to the Job because it was an low stress job. I interviewed by phone and then went in for my face to face with the department manager. The information email stated to wear professional attire or scrubs. I wore the typical black slacks, black top with an outer over coat and closed tied shoes. No jewelery with the exception of earnings. I felt like the interview went well and was give the card as usual by the depatmanaget. I sent my follow up email thank you. Within less than 24 hours I was approached in an email to seek a more qualified job. Nothing was mentioned in either interview anything about certifications or degrees. I feel I didn't get the job because of my age until I found out my granddaughter in her 20's interviewed with this same company and they never even gave her a preset phone interview.

  16. Cecile Marie Giroux

    Move on

  17. Anonymous

    Always keep looking for a "back-up" position even when you get an offer. One can see things go sideways or not materialized as wished. Seeing poor communication, as you have experienced, is a real red flag. It also could mean that company is understaffed and people do not have time to fulfill their duties properly. Keep looking - move on if you find something!

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    Games during the hiring process is a red flag in itself. They're in no hurry, so even if you are the candidate they chose, they aren't that excited about it either. I would not continue attempting to onboard at this company.

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