I would just answer the rejection e-mail (if that is what you received) with a “Thank you for letting me know” or some other cordial message and let it go. I had a similar situation, a job I definitely though was mine a year and half ago, in my mind I though I got rejected because I was honest in my last written interview and I really wanted that company. To my surprise, my interviewer sent me a message this passed week that has the perfect position for me and she always though about me, the company just decided to go with an entry level at the moment. Sometimes the reason is not even what we believe when the rejection hurts and we are in need of a job. Therefore, if you want to leave the opportunity open, just send a polite thanks and process this pain in private to the best of you ability.
By the way, I had to tell her no, at least at the moment, because I love the company I’m working with now and the projects I’m doing. I didn’t like the job I found in that moment, but kept moving and looking for and it happened, I got a job I enjoy. So, please, don’t allow this to discourage you and minimize your value. Update your resume with the information you feel they needed to see, if necessary, and keep searching. I know is exhausting these times and a long process, but know your worth.
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