I don't have a direct answer for you, but I do have an experience you can draw upon.
I worked for a company that would have quarterly awards ceremonies where "The Best of the Best Award" was given. Though I know that the award was bought at an award and trophy shop, I still desired that tear drop glass award namely because I was conditioned to do so. I grew up in religious schools where good conduct awards were doled out, so I naturally coveted "The Best of the Best Award."
Those afternoon award ceremonies would put me in a foul mood for days (literally from Thursday afternoon to Monday morning) because it seemed that no matter how hard I had worked, I would never be recognized for the work that I did. I was the only person in the company who did what I did, and I had done much to improve my department.
Toward my last year with the company, I started to notice that other department members stopped going to the awards ceremonies, which gave me permission to stop attending them as well. Not having to participate in those ceremonies did much to improve my mood.
Later on, I left the company and got a contract job where my team members would flagrantly goof off. Watching them gold brick got me thinking about those dreaded award ceremonies and wondering whether I should have treated myself more gently through the years. I now ask myself why I didn't just take a few hours off on those days and enjoy my afternoons.
I no longer covet "The Best of the Best Award," for our new CEO got cheap and exchanged those glorious glass awards with paper certificates, and let's be honest, who wants an award that came out of a Xerox machine not ten minutes before it was given?
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