Hello. I lived through a worst-nightmare PIP scenario. It began in my 7th month of employment and just 2 weeks after my performance review (which went fine, as I was awarded a $2,000 bonus). It began with my manager calling sudden meetings about: my phone being overheard ringing (never was a problem before, and everyone else's phones always rang); my being overheard humming; a sudden "loss of confidence" in me. I survived the PIP because they found nothing substantial. What I didn't know at first was that they were preparing to set me up for failure further down the line. The reason for the PIP was a direct report throwing me under the bus to HR in retaliation for my asking him to stop (an AVP with 18 yrs seniority with a history of inappropriate workplace relationships - I didn't see at first that his behavior was ill-intentioned because he was initially kind and charming-- and honestly, at almost 50, I thought I was too old to be THAT kind of target...until his behavior got creepier and creepier, including unannounced neck-squeezes and shoulder-rubs in the midst of the office/cube farm- it was anxiety-provoking to say the least because he didn't care who saw him). After the the PIP ended I was followed, stalked, gaslit, and given made-up write-ups. He stalked me in AND out of the office. I was fired 4 1/2 months after the nightmare began. I will never get over how much the WOMEN in management seemed to enjoy traumatizing me. When they reinstituted a brand new PIP 2 months after the first one ended, I will never forget how these awful women made eye contact when I said to them "This really began back in xxxxxxx." I knew from their looks that I was right. Make no mistake: at work, NO ONE is your friend. Go in, do your job to the best of your ability, go home. There are ways to help guide and coach employees other than a PIP (that is, IF the employee WANTS to see you/ help you succeed). A PIP is just a long, drawn-out CYA for the organization. Btw, they thought they wouldn't get sued. They were wrong. Still, in the end, that experience was not worth the payout.
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