I'm currently finishing up my BFA (at the age of 49) and was offered my dream job at the beginning of this year. It was absolutely everything I was looking for. It was with my current employer, just in a different department, and was a graphic design/exhibit design position for the State Historical Center covering all state museums and trail wayfinding. I desperately wanted this position and was mentally halfway to working there already. It fit my Graphic Design major and Museum Studies minor perfectly.
However, they were unwilling to guarantee that they would be flexible around my classes. They were willing to work around the remainder of my semester, but not going forward. I know they COULD, because my current department is happy to flex my time. It would've been a lateral transfer, so no additional pay and benefits. I chose to turn down the job. It broke my heart, but I couldn't walk away from my degree.
But...I already have a full time job that meets my needs (just the work is mundane) and I know that they most likely will have another identical position opening up in a year or so due to a retirement.
In your response, I would detail the specifics of what you are looking for (e.g. this program takes xx number of hours/week, you're able to do the majority of work outside of business hours, but will need xx days off a month). If you're willing to pause your graduate work for your probationary period, say that. I don't know that I would say you're willing to bail on your degree program (and I would not recommend that...no matter how "perfect" a job can seem from the outside, you don't really know until you're in the role). Just be clear about any concessions you're asking for, and any concessions you're willing to offer, and say you hope you can agree on a compromise.
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