Never give up.
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Never give up.
This is more or less for those out there seeking employment, or just feeling stuck. It’s no rags-to-riches story but for over a year, I didn’t work. I applied to various roles, but deep down I didn’t want them (mostly admin). I volunteered a bit, went to the gym and filled my days with little projects, but I was deeply lost, dejected and lonely.
I finally got off my can, signed up to go back to school and found a gig as a concierge in a luxury hotel in the city.
At the end of the day, I’m tired and hurt all over, but I’m grateful and happy. I’ve worked in corporate America, small business, you name it…The hospitality industry is brutal and the pay stinks (as does the schedule), but I absolutely love it. My classes begin in January and I’m about to become a lot busier. Bring it. ?
I will stipulate that I’m very fortunate as my husband is the breadwinner. But for me, not working took a toll. It gave me a glimpse as to what retirement looks like and I’m nowhere near there. I’m just getting started. I’m in my 50’s.
Some shifts can be brutal. My feet hurt at the end of the day and I need a heating pad some nights, but it can be fun. I have a story each day…some people can be truly interesting…lol.
Don’t give up. I don’t intend to do this forever but it sure beats being in my head all day. I feel like a changed woman.
If this doesn’t work out for whatever reason, I’ll find something else.
Happy holidays, everyone!
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