Struggling to find a job thats a "right fit" for me

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September 12,2023 at 1:25AM UTC

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Struggling to find a job thats a "right fit" for me

Hello everyone! For the past couple of years I have been trying various different jobs such as call center rep, administrative assistant and project coordinator, because I haven't been able to get any other type of jobs. I experienced a lot of toxic workplaces and workplace bullying because of my ADHD and anxiety. My most recent layoff was due to my boss throwing me under the bus for a mistake he made and this has made me majorly depressed and anxious about finding my next role. I'm anxious to the point of having panic attacks, getting sick before interviews and having mental breakdowns even looking at job postings. I want to change my career into something less stressful so I was thinking of becoming a Librarian or trying to find a remote job. I only have a B.S. degree in psychology and don't want to go back to school for a useless degree. I am also terrible at accounting and have no experience in IT. ANY advice on how to find a relatively less stressful job would be greatly appreciated.

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AnonymousSeptember 13,2023 at 1:05PM UTC
First, how is your ADHD and anxiety being treated? Are they being treated?
I have ADHD and, if I'm being honest, I seem to thrive on chaos. I'm a HRM in an industry that's a bit crazy, we have a very lean team, constant demands, earnings suck, etc. And I thrive on this! However, once upon a time, maybe 5-6 years ago, at a different employer, during a stressful time, I had what was likely a panic attack, but thought it was a heart attack so that was fun.
Now for you, are you seeing a therapist? Perhaps consider working with a career coach on identifying strengths and what may be a good fit for you. It seems these days any job can be stressful, but you need to find what works for you.
AnonymousNovember 5,2023 at 4:10AM UTC
Thanks for your advice I am working with a therapist on my issues with ADHD and anxiety. I definitely don't thrive in a chaotic environment it just makes my anxiety worse but I'm glad your able to! Currently trying to find a better fit for me and hopefully my luck in jobs will improve.