Hello I recently quit a job of 3 years and now I have been having the hardest time finding a new one .

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September 1,2023 at 1:16PM UTC

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Hello I recently quit a job of 3 years and now I have been having the hardest time finding a new one . And not only am I jobless, meaning no insurance I have just found out that I am expecting for the first time ever . And I have no room to be happy because although my boyfriend works, I am not. And I’m very uncomfortable with the moving on with the decision to being a mother without securing a job and being uninsured.

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Sarah StadtherrSeptember 1,2023 at 2:09PM UTC
Keep job hunting. I was hired when I was just barely pg and did not disclose it. By the time I needed to bring up the topic I had demonstrated my worth and they were ok with it. I did add an apology to the discussion but I stressed how I NEEDED a job at the time and they were compassionate enough to understand from my viewpoint. Best wishes and keep us posted.
AnonymousSeptember 1,2023 at 2:09PM UTC
Don't let the lack of insurance discourage you. There is state aid (Medicaid) to help women in your situation. I was in your shoes 27 years ago. I worked through a temp agency and even found a job. You will be ok. First thing first, get situated with state insurance and then focus on finding work. Not sure what you do for a living but there are remote opportunities as well. You will be ok. Oh, and I sincerely wholeheartedly mean this:pray. God provides!!!!
Susan Heidi WolmanSeptember 1,2023 at 2:53PM UTC
Get on your states health plan asap. You can always drop it when you get a job. There can be plans for mother and baby as well. Do this now. It isn’t just you anymore. Also unless you can get a remote position being pregnant will not be a selling point to any employer. Think of what you can do for the next 9 months to 2 years to bring in money.
You have no clue as to how your pregnancy will affect you.
congratulations!!’
AnonymousSeptember 1,2023 at 3:31PM UTC
Go directly to your state social services office and apply for Medicaid and WIC to take care of your prenatal care and cover the cost of the pregnancy and birth. Also, check with your state's ability to receive food benefits (SNAP, aka Food Stamps) and any cash assistance until you find work.
AnonymousSeptember 1,2023 at 5:25PM UTC
You can try and it's a great idea. But if you quit and your spouse has insurance.....
Try. All they can say is ineligible
AnonymousSeptember 2,2023 at 2:34PM UTC
That’s not an issue for Medicaid/WIC, only unemployment. She specifically said ‘boyfriend’, so she would be unable to be covered under his insurance. Also, even if married, you can get Medicaid/WIC as long as you file taxes separately.
AnonymousSeptember 2,2023 at 2:41PM UTC
That makes sense. I overlooked "boyfriend". I totally see your point :)
AnonymousSeptember 3,2023 at 6:34PM UTC
It's still worth a shot. Some companies have benefits for "domestic partners" and children, where the employee must provide insurance through a child-support agreement.
AnonymousSeptember 1,2023 at 3:50PM UTC
Why did you quit before you had another job lined up. Lesson learned. You'll find a new job. Congratulations on the impending birth of your beautiful baby.
AnonymousSeptember 1,2023 at 4:41PM UTC
It happens, trust me. No need to lecture on that. You don't know the specific reasons why nor does she need to disclose.
AnonymousSeptember 4,2023 at 6:26PM UTC
I wasn't lecturing and I can post my opinion if I chose. While its true every situation is different, its typically not wise to quit a job before you have another one lined up OR a well thought out exit plan. Neither seems to be the case here, hence the seeking advice on what to do now.
AnonymousSeptember 5,2023 at 6:06PM UTC
I was given no choice but to leave my job under a lot of pressure. I started applying well in advance and even then I didn’t have any offers. Life just happens no job is secure.
AnonymousSeptember 1,2023 at 4:40PM UTC
Been there done that quitting a job without having another lined up. I do not envy the position you are in. When I went through that, I was finishing up my degree, planning my wedding and considering a cross country move. Due to the reasons I quit (the place was basically a s*** show and the stress of it was starting to affect me physically), I was able to communicate with HR, demanding an exit interview, my vacation paid out despite no notice and them not contesting unemployment should I apply for it (I ended up not). Sounds like others made recommendations regarding insurance. I have no experience in that as I went without but I also wasn't pregnant at the time. Have you considered looking into temp work to get you through until baby arrives or until you find full time employment?
Melissa HacheySeptember 2,2023 at 12:35PM UTC
someone else posted this, but I will too. Sign up for social services and work temp jobs to save money. You’ll gain some valuable work skills and get some money saved while waiting for your baby to arrive. After the baby is born you can regroup and find a full time job and you’ll have references from the temp work.
Claire McCabeSeptember 2,2023 at 4:31PM UTC
You will be completely fine. People quit jobs all the time without lining up another one. Don't beat yourself up. I'm sure there was a reason.
CONGRATS on your little one coming! I'd work on getting a financial plan together and work with your boyfriend on the plan. Who is going to pay for health insurance? I'd say that's your first goal. Do you live together? Can he handle bills for now? Temp work can be GREAT when you are "in transition." Get something fast and quick once you solve the health insurance issue. COBRA is expensive but worth it in an emergency. Get a part time or full time gig that covers your 4 walls while you regroup and prepare to be a mom! So stoked for you and this is just a blip on what will undoubtedly be a long long career.
AnonymousSeptember 3,2023 at 1:18PM UTC
I had to quit my job this year. I have been applying to jobs without any luck as well. Don’t give up there is something out there and the opportunity will come. I signed up for government insurance and qualified for Medicaid.
Stephanie LekowskiSeptember 3,2023 at 1:35PM UTC
Is it possible for you to find a temporary assignment? It could tide you over financially so that future employers will see that you're not just sitting home not trying. And take some classes online to refresh/update skills. Best of luck :-D!
AnonymousSeptember 3,2023 at 2:55PM UTC
Right now its open enrollment for Medicaid. You should apply. Trying to find a job and then integrating into a new environment is all quite stressful. Please don’t add to your other worries
AnonymousSeptember 3,2023 at 6:11PM UTC
You're single and jobless...get on medicaid so that you and baby have care. Here in my state , medicaid coverage is excellent...also... I just want to wish you a huge congratulations on that precious life. You are carrying . even though it comes as a surprise, During a stressful time, a new baby is a blessing for sure...
Valerie RiegerSeptember 5,2023 at 5:29PM UTC
Congratulations! I can only imagine how torn you are right now.
Most states have really good Medicaid care for expectant mothers and newborns. Reach out to your local Medicaid office as soon as possible.