After reading some of the responses I believe that people who work and climb ladders need help in ways to prevent further stress and strain on anyone making attempts to be part of society and the broken system. Society works but the system doesn't work for all in society. Why? They lock you in and lie to you.
Some of you may or may not be nerds like myself but when I watch Star Wars I don't pay attention just to the special effects teams great laser fights. Take a look at the hierarchy and lessons they learn. The unfair treatment between the haves and have nots. Your question has been asked by many since working for a living became a natural way of life
We don't have short term safe guards in pace for the sick. We don't have training in the law (those bastards know that) and they do use a different set of logic and rules to determine who is "legally" disabled. I was told I could work with the list of chronic conditions, mental health problems, hospitalizations and secondary grief of losing everything and my grandmother even with imaging studies and horrid side effects from medications. Ya, they told me I could work on marijuana and other medications that not only have gotten me killed but you reading this as well. Pearline Hardy, ALJ and James Miller, occupational decision makers whom have never met me get to decide my fate based on poor medical data by doctors that don't see the forest through the trees because they are paid off to lessen the truth.
If half of you knew what it was like to work in pain for one week that I did for the 12 years maybe some of what I'm writing would matter. I paid into a system that completely has failed me. I've met others in pain support groups sweating from their illnesses, their skin on fire, their eyes blood shot because the tears of being forced to work because money is all that matters to a world of materialistic weasels.
I'm for working for what you have but what I'm not for is a government that tells you to CYA and prove your issues and then with full on intent ignores it. I would have only received 1810 a month on SSDI. Is that how broke our governments are they can't let one person who has worked since 15 get a little help? I had no intentions of staying on it with the hopes of finding something less physical (bedside nursing with my conditions, really?) I had to go through a lot to finally get the medication that works but the damage ? now done to my heart. I've got a Holter monitor on at 45 years of age due to experimental drugs, off lable drug use and the stress of having to follow their bullshit plan of care just so I can afford to NOT live in my van in 2023.
I don't know if my book will help but look for it coming soon. Other Than Honorable. Seems a fitting title for someone that never gives up.
Mary, I'm sorry your co worker has come off like a bum but ask your Co worker if the situation is anything like mine. I had long haul covid. It really sucked me down into a deep hole. I had to do a lot fo get back to good. Steroids, EMDR, work, cry, find some purpose. It's very hard to keep up and no joking aside, walmart wouldn't hire me at all. But nursing homes will? I found a non physical job but they fired me over the phone 5 days after they hired me when I asked for help with something. Nice right? That's the ostrich like mentality in some work places. Especially, here, in the Midwest.
Your co worker is most likely stuck in tar and can't get out. Like most of us, we go to college, have families, have debt, have loans, mortgages, bills that requires that paycheck and going to a different job that pays less doesn't work because no matter what you do it still hurts or the medical benefits are bad or don't exist. Gainful employment in America is 1300 a MO. That doesn't pay for much does it.
We did this by voting in leaders that treated us like cattle for cash. We let this happen. Republicans and Democrats they're all crooks. I'm prior Navy and I'm telling ya, everyone I'd a fucking asshole on this planet and my east coast mother was right.
"Look out for number one, yourself, because no one else will."
After living a few decades I'd being naive about the love and controversial power of Jesus. I'm disappointed in how right she is about most.
So, tell your co worker best of luck against all her odds. She or he is gonna need it.
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