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January 10,2024 at 3:33AM UTC

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I have been searching, applying and interviewing for my next role for 3 months now. I had my resume & linkedin professionally done (which I do every time I'm in search mode). With the 5 interviews I got, 2 were, we are not moving on with you and 3 were, this role is on hold. I am in my 50s and would like to believe there are people who want my expertise at this point. However, I feel like I'm seeing that they do, but they want to pay significantly less than what my experience commands. I am flexible, but I'm not going to take a 40k pay cut. Anyone???

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Marian DavidsonJanuary 10,2024 at 5:30AM UTC
I would recommend that you do what I did. I shaved 10 years off my résumé, the first 10 years I did color my hair and change my style. I also dressed in a more useful way, and made sure to use make up judiciously. Sad to say, as an older person over 50 you really need to Look younger. Anyway, those first 10 years on your résumé are really not particularly relevant.
AnonymousJanuary 10,2024 at 5:57PM UTC
Hi-OP here-thank you for your response! My rez only has my last 10 years of work and I'm very fortunate that people think I look 20 years younger than I actually am. Once they see those VP roles and accomplishments, it gives away my experience level.
M. TaylorJanuary 10,2024 at 8:15PM UTC
Respectfully, no one needs to "look younger".
AnonymousJanuary 10,2024 at 1:31PM UTC
You are kinda early in your job search. Especially when you throw holidays into the mix. Time and patience are needed here.
AnonymousJanuary 10,2024 at 3:49PM UTC
I would take a position even it’s a pay cut because the longer you go with out any income is a negative. I left a 70k job last year for a $130k and was just laid off so at this point I’m open to all offers because something is better than nothing & I can keep looking.
M. TaylorJanuary 10,2024 at 4:43PM UTC
My experience has been don't act old. Stop thinking about it. Not sure about the make-up and hair advice here, that can come off as garish and unsuitable. I'm 64 and have had quite a few interviews, been offered a government-related job that may or may not start up soon, but I am seeing lots of options. Many, many companies are embracing the mature worker.
LynnJanuary 10,2024 at 5:23PM UTC
Sounds like you are getting interviews, which is great! You’ve been job searching for 3 months, which can feel like forever, but is not that long for a more senior role. You absolutely can secure a new role with a competitive salary at this age. I did it at 53. It took me 5 months. Know your worth, prepare like hell and show them that you are the best candidate. You can do it!
AnonymousJanuary 10,2024 at 10:56PM UTC
I am in the exact same situation. I haven't even been able to get an interview. Also had my resume and LI profile professionally done. Would appreciate any guidance on how to get an interview after applying!
Saudia SantureJanuary 11,2024 at 1:57PM UTC
Ditto. 47.