I was just let go from my job after 15 years.

I was just let go from my job after 15 years. I had held on to this job, although my manager was toxic and hostile towards me for many years. Constantly threatenting to fire me and would retaliate or only give me half of my annual bonus. I found out i waa being let go when i received a direct deposit a week in advance and in the middle of the week. It wasnt until the next day the CFO and my new manager had scheduled a review meeting on a Thursday later in the day. I did get emotional as I was in disbelief. I didnt get a severance package and only got paid out my 300 hours of vacation time. It was only enough to cover me for a month. No benefits for my son and I. A few hours later the CFO calls me tetellingretelling me she felt bad about what i said and was willing to offer me a severance package. In that package it mentions i cannot sue them for wrongful termination or even disclose what i went through. Everything was verbal. Yes, i cried, was called a bitch the N word, discriminated against and she took advantage of me knowing i needed my job. In short, I had to let all the board members know what i had endured and how my health declined, stress, miscarriages and my family had also been effected by my employer. How do I go about asking for at least a years worth of my income and health benefits. Something reasonable would be helpful. Ive been looking for work even while i was employed and its been difficult. Any guidance will be helpful. Thank you very much

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  1. Anonymous

    If that is you desired outcome you will need to sue the company because I doubt seriously that they will volunteer to pay you a year's worth of salary and benefits. I would definitely seek legal advice (your initial consultation is free,)

  2. Anonymous

    If that is what you are looking for and you have the evidence to back you up, don't ask them, seek the advice of an attorney. You are not going to get an employer to offer up a year's salary without jumping through many (legal) hoops.

  3. Anonymous

    Please talk to an attorney. As soon as you can. They know what happened was wrong. Just see what the attorney says. Things happen for a reason and you suffered for years... And we both know you didn't deserve it. You got this sis.

  4. Anonymous

    The fact they included you cant sue them or disclose what you endured is a red flag. Contact a lawyer as they are trying to cover their own interest. You may have a case. Good luck

  5. Meagan Prior

    There's a good book on how to negotiate a severance package. This is a very well respected personal finance site/author.

    https://www.financialsamurai.com/how-to-make-money-quitting-your-job-2/

    You should definitely talk to an employment lawyer FIRST before doing anything else, including speaking with anyone from your former employer.

  6. Anonymous

    Depending on what state you live in wrongful termination does not by itself mean you cannot file a discrimination complaint. Check with an attorney or a legal aid.

  7. Anonymous

    It's advisable to obtain a copy of the offer and consult with an attorney before signing it. In most states, such agreements are biased in favor of the employer and therefore considered null even if signed. It's essential to have a chat with an attorney to ensure that you are fully aware of the implications of the offer.

    It is possible that you can counter the situation, but it is important to note that the process may take longer than expected. It is unlikely that you will be able to resolve with the outcome you're hoping for. However, if the other party believes that you have a valid claim, it may be possible to reach a resolution and obtain six months.

    It is crucial to gather all the necessary evidence and information to present a strong case to an attorney if 6 months is not acceptable.

  8. Kimberly Mc

    Do not sign ANYTHING! Get yourself an employment attorney. Go to legal aid if you have to. You deserve so much more than merely a pity severe package and they know it.

  9. Andrea D

    Girl get a lawyer immediately!! Do not negotiate or sign anything until you confer with the lawyer!

  10. Anonymous

    DO not sign anything or negotiate & contact an employment lawyer now.
    Your lawyer will negotiate and more than likely get you more than a year’s salary! The CFO calling you is a sign that the company knows they messed up but they will low ball what you are deserved & it will come with a clause that you won’t sue. Don’t take it & lawyer up especially after 15?years working there!

  11. Vanda Lee

    I agree! The reason the CFO is offering you a severance pkg is because they know you have a legitimate legal claim against them! Get a lawyer NOW and don't sign anything!

  12. Anonymous

    Please contact an employment attorney immediately. Do NOT sign anything the company offers you. If you need to, take a sick day immediately and use it to call lawyers from the privacy of your home.

  13. Anonymous

    Consult an employment lawyer first.
    They clearly don't want you to sue. The lawyer will help you negotiate the year's compensation or shoot for more if there's a case.

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