How to leave a new job for a better one?

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August 7,2023 at 6:55PM UTC

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How to leave a new job for a better one?

I have been job hunting for more than a year due to a layoff. It's a brutal job market as we all know. I am in the midst of consideration for 4 roles, one of which I really want and would be a step up. I am due to receive an offer for another job within a week which which I'm not excited about (lower level and pay). However, the job I really am excited about won't make a decision until September due to vacation time of decision makers. If I accept the lower role and then am offered the better one within a month after starting the new job, what is the best way to resign? I would be tempted to not accept lower level offer if the market wasn't just so bad.

Has anyone done this successfully? Thanks.

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AnonymousAugust 7,2023 at 7:58PM UTC
In today's market, anything and everything can happen. Keep your search moving forward as you never know what will happen no matter how you feel.
AnonymousAugust 9,2023 at 3:02PM UTC
Don't I know it! :) I am continuing to search because I know jobs fall through all the time. I lost count of the times I've been ghosted after completing 5 or 6 rounds. Just disappointing when the opportunity is less than you hoped after investing so much time looking. But as I noted, it is a really brutal market right now. Thanks again for commenting.
ShelsAugust 7,2023 at 10:17PM UTC
I had two places interested in me. The one closest to my home wasn't ready to come through with an offer until AFTER I had started at the one an hour away. When the offer for the one 5 minutes from my house came, it was at a $1/hr less than the one I had. Gas prices were at their highest point too. I ended up going in to tell the boss that I had decided to accept the job closer to me. I told her the driving in really bad northern Indiana roads and the length of time and mileage was part of the factor. She really understood. She said she had had a position where she drove 1 1/2 hours to a job and when she was finally able to find something closer, what a relief it was. Another factor in my decision was that I had to share a very small office with another woman who was very pushy, opinionated, and had a habit of poking me (hard) whenever she was standing near me (she had to train me for MY job). The poking was what really tipped the scale. I just couldn't subject myself to that atmosphere every day for hours on end.
AnonymousAugust 8,2023 at 1:29PM UTC
I would accept this role and push the start date to Monday,9/18. You still don’t have an offer in hand. If or when you receive that offer ask for a few days to look through the offer letter/benefits and at that point, you will be looking at the end of August so asking for a start date of 9/18 due to preplanned vacation, will not be unreasonable. Keep looking until an offer is in your hand.
AnonymousAugust 9,2023 at 2:59PM UTC
Thank you! I am going to push the start date but not sure they will allow it to be pushed that far in September (though I wish!). But I'm sure going to try. I know from experience that job opportunities fall through all the time. They get delayed, paused or changed in some way so I am continuing to aggressively search while in the mix for these others. Just a brutal job market!
AnonymousAugust 11,2023 at 5:42PM UTC
Tell the company that you have a pre-planned family vacation that cannot be moved.
AnonymousAugust 11,2023 at 3:31PM UTC
I’m just here for the comments - this is what I did- I accepted a lesser pay remote job (since everyone is fighting over remote jobs) and continuing to look.
i am not coasting with this job though - I put forth a lot of effort - but as soon as a better job comes, which who knows when - leaving. I add this because a lot of people on here are judgy and obsessed with burning bridges & simping for employers.