I wish someone (anyone!) would have warned me about the leader at my current job before I accepted.

I wish someone (anyone!) would have warned me about the leader at my current job before I accepted.

If it's a truly bad situation, a brief but firm statement should be enough. simply state something along the lines of "for my own inner peace, I truly do not wish to *relive* or speak about my experience working at XYZ company."

Hopefully, your colleague(s) are perceptive and will understand your use of the word *relive* as a warning.

If pressed for more details, simply repeat the same sentence, and politely ask to not discuss that previous employer/company anymore.

That should gaive any conscious person cause to stop and think.

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  1. Anonymous

    I have felt this way before as well. I have learned to look at a companies reviews on social media or just on Google. Although I know a lot of people who comment are usually those with bad experiences it does bring some light to the issues within the company when I have read them in the past.

    Also always remember sometimes the job that is perfect for you may not have been for the previous person. Just as in a relationship, your ex could have found his/her perfect match after you without issues. Personality causes a lot of the issues between people.

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