I'd really like to ask for a promotion in a way that doesn't make my paranoid boss think I'm about to resign. Or that I'll be less committed. Any suggestions for how to accomplish this? To be clear, I am not planning on leaving if I don't get it. I just learned I should always…
I'm really bad at networking. I try to make connections, but I'm just awful at the small talk (and I feel like it's hurting my chances of ever elevating my career). Any insights from a fellow non-networker?
Question for anyone else who might have insight to reference checks. Do you think these are worth the time and effort to conduct any longer? What are some alternatives your company uses instead of reference checks? I'm asking because in some instances this could be a barrier for…
Afraid of burning bridges. Ever since I announced I was leaving my job, my coworkers have been passive-aggressive. I get it — my work will be going to them, without any additional compensation or pay. I want to leave on a good note. How can I stay in their good graces?
Return to office plans. Is it unreasonable to dislike having to return to the office just 1-2 days a week? I know it may sound a bit entitled but I really think there's no reason to justify even a partial week commute into the office now that I've worked remotely successfully for…
How do I negotiate my salary at a bad time for the company? I'm long overdue for a raise, but my company is in a not-great spot right now. I don't just want to quit. I want to make it work here, but I need to be compensated fairly for the work I've taken on since my last raise.…
Every time I ask for a job's salary range, the recruiter puts it back on me. This seems unfair. I want to make sure that we are not wasting each other's time by setting up a call if expectations are not aligned. But I don't want to say a range and run the risk of low-balling…
Hating on the calendar apps. I know they are convenient but I just received one saying to book a time but the next slot open is in 3 weeks! I wonder if the recipient knew...do you think it's rude to respond with "there's no time available any time soon" if a colleague intimated I…
I still deserve my promotion. I was supposed to be promoted, but now my company is going through a random "reorg" and laid off a bunch of people. And where do you think the extra work went? To me! What do I do?
Feeling a bit betrayed. My manager just told me yesterday he was leaving for another job opportunity. Previously I was promised a raise and promotion but now that he's leaving (and to be clear, I wish him well), I don't think I'll get that raise or promotion. Is there any chance…
How soon should I consider looking for a new job? I just started at a large firm and gradually I have been noticing issues in management, workload, and boundaries. Initially it took a long time to hear back with an offer, and the job title I currently have is a lower position…
Ideas about professionalism. Is it just me or does it seem that partially because of more casual wear trends and partially because of video meetings that what's professional vs. not seems to be changing? I, for example, am starting to feel awkward about signing my emails with…
Tips for having your resume actually read by recruiters? During past job hunts, I would receive a mix of positive feedback, interviews and of course the dreaded rejections. This time, I have more experience but without any response. I've tried tailoring my resume to fit the post…
The people I think I should network with are friends of my current boss. I don't want my boss to know I'm job hunting. What should I say to keep it professional but also hush-hush?
When searching for a new job/career or advancing your current one, which method of schooling would you consider? Bachelor vs. Masters, MOOC classes (EDX, Coursera), online Certification course, etc. In your opinion, is one better than the other?
This job rejection might be the straw that broke the camel's back. It wasn't even for a job I truly wanted, but it was one I knew I was qualified for and actually felt confident about landing (I'm usually one to doubt myself, but not about this role). Would love some words of…
Am I spending too much time on cover letters? I feel like I'm putting a decent amount of work in to personalize my cover letters and really make them fit for each role I'm applying to. But it's a lot of work — and I've heard some hiring managers say they don't even read them! I…
Company that originally required full vaccinations is now changing their stance right before we return to the office. I'm not trying to start a vaccination debate. Instead, I'd appreciate your advice regarding my situation. I've been apprehensive regarding the office-wide return…
How long of maternity/family leave would not hurt your career as a woman in corporate environment? I’m interior designer working in NYC in corporate architectural firm in my mid 30s. Lately I have been thinking about having kids with my husband. Since the…
I'm at a startup without a lot of formal diversity programs. And I'm thinking about volunteering to do some ERG work this year. My issue is that while I care a lot about D&I, I know to do this well will take a ton of time and I'm already working 50 hour weeks. Any suggestions for…