Community Discussions November 2024

Fairygodboss

Updated: 2/19/2025

Nov 1, 2024, 7:24:08 AM "The interviewer sent me a message saying that she'd be about 15 minutes late. When she got on the call she apologized...they were wrapping up their Halloween costume contest. She very closely matched the fairy godmother from Cinderella! I'm not just talking about the outfit. "

Nov 1, 2024, 10:26:38 AM Some of these responses are not helpful. Change everything about yourself to appear younger?? Just retire? Some poeple of retirement age have to work to live and can't retire. Who has the money to buy an entire new wardrobe, color their hair (a 6 week maintenance cost) and try to look younger. Even if they don't have to work, but want to it shouldn't be this difficult to find jobs at 69-70.

Nov 1, 2024, 11:32:21 AM "What are these companies doing? "

Nov 1, 2024, 11:54:35 AM I am very interested in a role at MITRE Corporation and, of course, I applied.

Nov 1, 2024, 12:36:32 PM I am a digital marketer and a content writer and I am looking forward to connect with any individual, or an organisation where I can enhance my own skills and experience

Nov 1, 2024, 2:12:02 PM A recruiter reached out to me today about a position with a law firm.

Nov 1, 2024, 2:30:23 PM What is the best way to describe being out of work for 8 years to raise children?

Nov 1, 2024, 7:07:01 PM "Iâ€™m not sure if Iâ€™m in the wrong line of work or not or what to do about it..? "

Nov 1, 2024, 10:14:35 PM "Iâ€™m looking for a hybrid or remote job in Arizona, because I have a chronic disability but every option out there is for insurance it seems. "

Nov 2, 2024, 1:17:35 AM I lost my direction recently

Nov 2, 2024, 3:56:44 AM I just had a situation at work where I unintentionally violated a policy.

Nov 2, 2024, 7:24:05 PM Subcontractor for a small firm for which I handle multiple large and mid-sized clients.

Nov 3, 2024, 1:46:32 PM "Hi Fairies! "

Nov 4, 2024, 12:41:08 AM I am looking for new opportunities to improve my skills

Nov 4, 2024, 7:39:41 AM Iâ€™d like to hear thoughts from mothers - with young and old children.

Nov 4, 2024, 1:43:55 PM Hi, I m looking for an internship to upskill myself.

Nov 4, 2024, 3:23:44 PM Iâ€m about to start a new job as an APP in healthcare, with 14 years experience.

Nov 4, 2024, 3:30:26 PM "Put off by interview question: "

Nov 4, 2024, 7:52:41 PM "The Silent Journey of Quitting: Why Leaving Feels So Lonely "

Nov 4, 2024, 10:22:28 PM "For FGB community in the USA, do you think hiring and jobs will pick up after the election tomorrow? "

Nov 5, 2024, 10:08:38 AM My application for this job I'm interested in has been \under review\" since 9/17. "

Nov 5, 2024, 11:06:35 AM I interviewed for a job where the HR interview round was supposed to last two weeks.

Nov 5, 2024, 11:42:34 AM I am looking for job after 1 year career break.

Nov 5, 2024, 7:14:39 PM Iâ€™ve been working as a contractor for a few months in a role I truly enjoy.

Nov 5, 2024, 8:19:18 PM "What does this mean "

Nov 6, 2024, 3:31:57 AM Does anyone here work for such a bad manager that you wonder why you need one at all?

Nov 6, 2024, 8:22:28 AM Hi, I need advice.

Nov 6, 2024, 10:08:24 AM "Hi , "

Nov 6, 2024, 10:21:03 AM "Feeling numb today and while taking party alliances out of the conversation, the overall mood ties into what we're facing with employment and the job market. "

Nov 6, 2024, 12:55:07 PM Short and quick rant/vent.

Nov 6, 2024, 1:48:35 PM I'm not \hustling\" enough.

Nov 6, 2024, 2:02:28 PM I have a letter of absence from my doctor to give to my Director prior to a big event we have next week.

Nov 6, 2024, 7:10:19 PM "Coworkers on my team keep trying to do my job "

Nov 7, 2024, 8:25:52 AM I applied for a job about two weeks ago that exactly matches my resume.

Nov 7, 2024, 10:28:35 AM How is the uk job market for IT project manager who wants to resume the career after maternity leave of 1.9years and no previous experience in UK with overall experience of 6.8years in India. Any thoughts will definitely add value to my job hunt in London ..thanks in advance ?

Nov 7, 2024, 3:21:50 PM Who else can't share their real political affiliation at work, for fear of retaliation?

Nov 7, 2024, 9:32:36 PM "Team member refusing training or to help with tasks they believe is not part of their job. "

Nov 7, 2024, 11:47:03 PM I graduated with a degree in engineering in 2023 and spent six months actively searching for jobs, attending various hiring tests, and interviews.

Nov 8, 2024, 10:54:56 AM "Hey ladies! I need some advice since this is definitely a pros and cons situation. Sorry in advance for the long post.. "

Nov 8, 2024, 1:21:20 PM "Hello all! "

Nov 9, 2024, 9:12:42 AM Received a promotion at work and it is somewhat of new territory for me.

Nov 9, 2024, 12:49:37 PM Over the past 2 years, there has been a huge culture shift at my work.

Nov 9, 2024, 2:00:10 PM "advise needed! "

Nov 9, 2024, 6:38:42 PM "Wanted to clarify if this is bullying or internal politics? "

Nov 9, 2024, 8:39:13 PM "Coping techniques until new job is found "

Nov 9, 2024, 9:16:20 PM I am an OH resident.

Nov 10, 2024, 7:32:33 AM "How to solicit feedback from my boss to be more effective? "

Nov 10, 2024, 12:29:06 PM Looking for advice: I have some good news!

Nov 10, 2024, 1:35:34 PM "Looking for advice: started job & now want to leave "

Nov 11, 2024, 8:08:10 AM "Everybody loves you when you let everything slide, but as soon as you start checking things and creating boundaries, you become the most hated. "

Nov 11, 2024, 10:02:51 AM Trying to make sense of this situation and would appreciate your help!

Nov 11, 2024, 11:07:53 AM I used to love weekends and holidays while I was working.

Nov 11, 2024, 6:06:55 PM "Need advice: How to communicate with several employers you are interviewing with who are moving at different paces? "

Nov 12, 2024, 7:55:03 AM How Do I get a job offer without people saying that a Master's degree is not enough education in North Carolina in Computer Science and Business Science?

Nov 12, 2024, 10:34:02 AM If I got covid from my boss (indeed confirmed this is where I got it from and work related) and several weeks later we were at a networking event she disclosed to a stranger that I was \covid symptomatic\" is that a violation of HIPAA?"

Nov 12, 2024, 12:25:51 PM I have received an offer letter for a new job that I am very excited about.

Nov 12, 2024, 2:49:17 PM I'm getting so tired of looking for jobs now.

Nov 12, 2024, 8:26:53 PM Manager and leader of organization creating a toxic work environment

Nov 12, 2024, 10:36:59 PM "Job Seeking!! Urgent!! "

Nov 13, 2024, 12:29:52 AM I am a recent hire as an analyst at one of the big 4s, and I want to work in marketing roles.

Nov 13, 2024, 7:23:45 AM It's been one of those weeks (and it's only Wednesday), and the incompetence of certain colleagues is mind-boggling. Does anyone have a professional equivalent of \he must be good in bed\"?

Nov 13, 2024, 7:42:58 AM I've been in this company for about one and half years, and i've been bullied for one and half years.

Nov 13, 2024, 9:47:44 AM "Transitioning Coworker "

Nov 13, 2024, 10:22:39 AM I am a single mother of two children. One of which is special needs. I am struggling to find a work from home job as I need to be home with my daughter.

Nov 13, 2024, 12:31:40 PM Is it appropriate to contact the hiring manager if you're not getting anywhere with HR?

Nov 13, 2024, 1:01:45 PM "Have a predicament and need help! "

Nov 13, 2024, 4:13:13 PM (22 yr old female) Hi everyone, looking for some advice.

Nov 13, 2024, 4:41:42 PM Tired of the lack of care, communication and follow up after interviews.

Nov 14, 2024, 1:45:23 AM "Ladies, I need your inputs on something. "

Nov 14, 2024, 9:09:29 AM "[Seeking advice] Jump to product consultant or keep pushing for software engineering? "

Nov 14, 2024, 11:45:28 AM "Advice for how to hang in there in a toxic environment while actively looking for a new job? "

Nov 14, 2024, 12:45:09 PM "Good Afternoon, "

Nov 14, 2024, 12:50:32 PM Why is it so hard to find a job in Clinical Research lately!?

Nov 14, 2024, 2:00:21 PM "How long do I wait? "

Nov 14, 2024, 5:32:07 PM "Greetings!! "

Nov 14, 2024, 7:45:30 PM I am unable to get any interview calls after applying and often gets rejected directly.

Nov 14, 2024, 10:18:59 PM "Hi everyone! "

Nov 15, 2024, 6:48:27 AM I work at a local supermarket and get 2-3 shifts per week.

Nov 15, 2024, 9:08:24 AM Hi all! This is my first post, but this has been bugging me for weeks.

Nov 15, 2024, 4:23:04 PM "Good job but little to no room for growth "

Nov 15, 2024, 4:27:11 PM "Hello all, Iâ€™ve been at my current company only 8 months but actively applying for another job because my manager and the leadership team is toxic and gaslight me constantly. "

Nov 16, 2024, 8:06:28 AM "I have observed that I am a bit clumsy during the days of my period. Yesterday I forgot to turn off my car before entering the office. My manager noticed my car wasnt turned off and kept asking me if I was ok all through the day. "

Nov 16, 2024, 10:06:29 AM "Thinking outside the box while job searching but feeling boxed in...I'd appreciate your advice as I'm not sure what else to try! "

Nov 17, 2024, 1:17:18 AM Trying to determine if I should start job searching, my current work is pretty toxic.

Nov 17, 2024, 5:08:41 PM "Made a blunder, sent an email meant for HR to the person it was about! "

Nov 17, 2024, 8:52:06 PM "I'm at a crossroads "

Nov 17, 2024, 10:06:42 PM I'm having trouble in my job lately.

Nov 18, 2024, 7:26:38 AM "Job offerâ€”how to negotiate "

Nov 18, 2024, 7:43:30 AM "Hi All Iam looking for a job after a gap of one year after working for 18 yrs. "

Nov 18, 2024, 8:34:09 AM I am a 56-year-old white male with over 15 years of digital marketing experience, social media management, strategy, and a \former\" graphic designer."

Nov 18, 2024, 8:35:52 AM I have an honest question being a male working often on mostly female teams.

Nov 18, 2024, 9:14:07 AM "Feeling Guilty - What Do I Do? "

Nov 18, 2024, 9:49:32 AM I'm looking for a janitor/housekeeping position either as supervisor, assistant or member.

Nov 18, 2024, 10:30:06 AM I work at a mall in Kendall off US 1 and the security, maintenance, management and housekeeping offices are not functioning properly.

Nov 18, 2024, 11:16:43 AM "I want to transition into the skincare industry (project management in skincare labs ) "

Nov 18, 2024, 12:09:11 PM "Perspective needed - am I being forced out? "

Nov 18, 2024, 12:23:34 PM I have major anxiety about negotiating my salary after only 1 year.

Nov 18, 2024, 1:38:32 PM "I have become uncomfortable at work.... "

Nov 18, 2024, 4:44:43 PM "Whatâ€™s a better rejection message you wish recruiters would stick to? "

Nov 18, 2024, 8:33:15 PM I took a shot in the dark and reached out to the co founder of a company that I am interested in (we had a few mutual connections) and asked if they are looking for help in shopper marketing.

Nov 19, 2024, 3:03:19 AM Previously I used to get a lot of interview calls, and recruiter replies but now the scenes have changed.

Nov 19, 2024, 7:33:06 AM "Great job, great manager, butâ€¦ "

Nov 19, 2024, 8:04:22 AM Interviewing Thursday for a HR Manager role. I am so anxious!

Nov 19, 2024, 8:08:51 AM I was recently laid off from a company I served for over 25 years.

Nov 19, 2024, 8:11:58 AM "Profiled? "

Nov 19, 2024, 10:17:10 AM Can someone please tell me what on earth is happening in the job market these days?

Nov 19, 2024, 4:10:51 PM HI, I am a Firmware Engineer with 13+ years of experience, currently looking for job in Ontario, Canada.

Nov 19, 2024, 8:02:15 PM "Hello! Please help! I am being invited to a meet-and-greet virtual meeting with the manager after two interviews with team members. "

Nov 19, 2024, 8:15:56 PM "I just started a new job two months ago, and I'm being asked to do an annual review? "

Nov 19, 2024, 9:14:42 PM I have been out of work since 2006 due to raising a family.

Nov 20, 2024, 3:05:14 AM Hello. I am looking for a job opportunity for salesforce developer role.

Nov 20, 2024, 7:46:10 AM "Recruiters and hiring managers, how important is a college degree as opposed to experience when looking for a job or advancing in your career? "

Nov 20, 2024, 9:08:04 AM I am having issues with a coworker that I would welcome suggestions on how to handle.

Nov 20, 2024, 10:30:01 AM "Dear Product managers. How did you arrive into your career? "

Nov 20, 2024, 11:10:46 AM Would you leave off a current job from your resume?

Nov 20, 2024, 11:28:41 AM "Seeking advice from HR professionals "

Nov 20, 2024, 12:49:21 PM I have been offered a medical records coordinator position by my manager and we havenâ€™t had a formal interview yet.

Nov 20, 2024, 2:20:59 PM "Career Changes "

Nov 20, 2024, 2:30:34 PM "Embracing constant change and innovation! "

Nov 20, 2024, 5:18:45 PM I was in healthcare for 10 years. Once I graduated college I got hired in the bank. This is a very different field and I do miss healthcare and have been waiting to go back to it for a few months.

Nov 21, 2024, 8:38:06 AM "Hi, "

Nov 21, 2024, 8:39:10 AM I'm having trouble finding my niche in marketing now that everything is specialized.

Nov 21, 2024, 9:06:42 AM Iâ€™m currently an administrative assistant at a PR firm.

Nov 21, 2024, 10:00:54 AM Hi everyone, our company offers cross border work policy.

Nov 21, 2024, 11:03:33 AM Hi All! I'm really enjoying the camaraderie here, well, mostly.

Nov 21, 2024, 7:43:57 PM "I went to a job interview for a middle management position in quality. "

Nov 21, 2024, 9:47:32 PM "Coworker is extremely forgetful "

Nov 21, 2024, 11:02:33 PM "I submitted a Leave of Absence from my doctor to my job 2 weeks ago as a result of feeling extremely overwhelmed & stressed since my Supervisor had been off for almost 4 weeks. While she was off, ALL of her work fell back on me and I was expected to reach out to all of her clients in addition to mine with 2 programs running at the samd time. Plus I was suffering from migraines. "

Nov 21, 2024, 11:29:03 PM "Hi, "

Nov 22, 2024, 4:29:57 AM I would like the groups feedback on a situation I have.

Nov 22, 2024, 7:35:21 AM "How do I handle this situation? "

Nov 22, 2024, 9:00:02 AM I am a 48-year-old woman with a college degree, but I have many back issues/spinal fusions that make it hard for me to sit or stand for too long (a part-time job is about what I can handle a week)

Nov 22, 2024, 9:33:22 AM "Big Corporate -> Start-up -> Big Corporate? "

Nov 22, 2024, 10:25:58 AM A coworker told me our boss ( business owner/operator) had said he might have to let me go.

Nov 22, 2024, 6:39:05 PM "I did it, and so can you! "

Nov 22, 2024, 9:43:34 PM "I have been full time freelance "

Nov 23, 2024, 9:32:51 AM I have hearing loss and concentration problems and my desk is in the middle of a 20â€™s-30â€™s group of coworkers who are loud and disruptive.

Nov 23, 2024, 4:06:20 PM Hello! I am a recent graduate and trying to get a job as a data analyst specifically in the US.

Nov 24, 2024, 2:51:54 AM "Hello, I want to find a remote job. "

Nov 24, 2024, 3:25:26 PM "I am a well-connected high performer who is super friendly but horrendously undervalued, what should I do? "

Nov 24, 2024, 10:46:15 PM What would you put in your resignation letter that you plan to hand in to your Supervisor so that they won't question your reason for leaving the company?

Nov 25, 2024, 9:47:24 AM Hello, Can someone who works in Hr explain to me why companies are doing away with seniority.

Nov 25, 2024, 12:21:47 PM "I think I'm over my job "

Nov 25, 2024, 4:00:01 PM Hello! Iâ€™m trying to find a job for full time but I donâ€™t have much experience aside from being a cashier, couldnâ€™t afford to finish collage.

Nov 26, 2024, 10:31:57 AM "Question regarding gender discrimination: "

Nov 26, 2024, 3:44:27 PM "Over the last few weeks, I went through the interview process for a new job and received the offer this morning - YAY! "

Nov 26, 2024, 5:07:02 PM Hello everyone, I am new to this platform.

Nov 27, 2024, 7:57:59 PM Warning long post.

Nov 27, 2024, 8:00:48 PM Does someone know what in the world is going on with the jobs that are being posted online??

Nov 27, 2024, 8:51:54 PM "Shooting from the hip..... my POV "

Nov 27, 2024, 9:00:57 PM "Happy Thanksgiving to FairyGodBoss Community! "

Nov 28, 2024, 9:50:24 AM "Just feeling lost in this job hunt. "

Nov 28, 2024, 6:28:30 PM "Can an absent director know you are performing well at your job? "

Nov 29, 2024, 8:48:35 AM Iâ€™m at a crossroads and looking for some clarity.

Nov 29, 2024, 11:03:31 AM "Can you assist me in navigating the notice game in terms of early retirement? "

Nov 29, 2024, 6:12:45 PM I resigned in September and gave zero advance notice.

Nov 29, 2024, 9:38:02 PM My boss wants to consider me for the role of a coordinator.

Nov 30, 2024, 7:33:51 AM "Need guidance on next steps: "

Nov 30, 2024, 10:27:05 AM "Hit my 6K application this week and while I've had a few interviews throughout my search, I haven't received any offers. I feel stuck circling on hamster wheel without being able to move forward. "

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